Thanks for the good thoughts Mist. No it is not a case of being used by or using my loved ones. That part of my life is over. Yes, I know you have choice examples of women using me in the past. Shrug, chalk it all up to another learning experience. And using is not just what men do to women but what humans (or local bipedal equivilant) do to eachother. It happens. But hey I have grown and learned much in the past few days. Thanks for the good thoughts.

Dave