The nine steps: Control your emotions, realize the consequences of getting even, ask questions, accept some of the blame, face the hard facts, don't look back, find trust, go the extra mile, and learn from the past without dwelling on it. The tenth is usually, "Talk about it together with someone else."
Forgiveness...
Date: 2004-03-25 09:56 am (UTC)Not that I've been there, or anything.